Your Attitude Sucks

I’ve been reading a lot of posts from newly divorced men or men going through divorce and I’ve gotta tell you, their attitudes towards women blows.

“You never really know a man until you have divorced him.” —Zsa Zsa Gabor

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“All they want is your money”

“They suck the life out of you”

“Getting divorced from that b**ch was the best thing that ever happened to me”

“I wish I never met you”

“She doesn’t even care about it the kids, she just wants to take me for all the child support possible”

“All she wants to do is take my kid from me”

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A lot of men are in pain and bitter and think they never want to get in a serious relationship again, let alone get re-married.

HERES THE THING-you aren’t going to be able to date high-quality women if you have a bitter, angry attitude toward them. You will repel them. Marriage isn’t easy and it takes two to make something such as marriage successful. It’s work. most men don’t want to put in the work when it gets hard. Then when the women tries to fight for it. Fight for clarity-she’s “harassing you” she’s “unstable” she’s “needy” or “too demanding”. Sometimes its not about what SHE did or how CRAZY your ex-wife is. It is simply what you BOTH didn’t do for one another in the marriage and it be left at that.

Changing and finding yourself is part of the aftermath that comes from divorcing someone, especially when you have known nothing but that person for 6-7 years in total. There was likely a choice at some point to fix your marriage; to forgive and choose the hard that was worth the fight. But at one point someone chose not to fight as hard as the other.

I’ll never for the life of me understand how someone who promised to spend their life with you thinks it’s ok to use everything you entrusted in then with against you. Whats worse is most men who divorce believe thats just how all women are....False. THAT ATTITUDE SUCKS.

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Most women know they are half to blame; the irony is they can accept that it’s over They just want the closure. To know that that what they gave to the person they chose to marry when they gave it their all was...REAL. It’s that simple.

“The bitterness and painful things that can can be said by a love one during all stages of divorce, especially at the beginning, can change the mindset of those who gave it their all.”

You see, there are a lot of women who don’t want to be in a serious relationship either after a painful divorce. 9/10 times they had to create their own closure, because they will not get it. Like men, they are looking to have fun with a quality man. They are NOT looking to be with a bitter man who is angry at women, though.