The Hard Conversations

I recently had a minor slip up; I was obsessing over something I had no business even caring about anymore. It was a lack of sleep and influx of hormones causing an issue within my ability to let things go

The irony is the incident led to an even better outcome. See,

I have never once been on the receiving end of being given the benefit of the doubt. It’s always been assumed and the worst at that. That type of behavior in a relationship will breed defensive reactions.

I have been queen of defensive reactions for the entirety of my adult life.

I chose not to be defensive for once and it was very different.

The best couples; hell they best people aren’t ones who don’t go through shit. It’s the ones who do and choose to have the hard conversations. The people who choose to communicate versus assume.

I think we often times overlook how much adversity and complexity and problem solving helps us at our core.

I think we often times overlook how much adversity and complexity and problem solving helps us at our core.